Sometimes when there are couples who have been married for over ten years, then there could be a lot of reasons to why sexual interest may decrease. Some reasons that they may lack of sexual interest could come from mental and physical problems. A mental issue between one partner cold be that after being with someone for such a long period of time, then that could have possibly lead to lack of sexual interest in that person. A physical issue between one partner could lead up to the other person not feeling attractive to their mate because of some physical changes in them after some years.
Another physical issue could be that one partner may have just lost interest in their partner because of trust issues from things that may have happened in the past. Sometimes you have to keep the marriage new. I always tell my husband I want to live our marriage like we are still dating. Which in tells getting dressed up for another occasionally, going out on regular dates without the kids, and not changing who we are doing the good times or bad times in our marriage.
Wonderful message and you are doing the right thing. It's important that you always feel attraction to your partner both physically and mentally. To keep your married life evergreen and blazing your approach is inventive, unique and appropriate. [ Now what is your question? ]
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Asked 11/9/2011 7:10:32 PM
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