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Q: how can i make my girl friend stop being shy to hold my hand or even touch me
A: The most important thing is not to push her to do these things before she is ready. You should talk to her about it and be encouraging and supportive. [ Depending on how she feels, you can try practicing holding hands for a short time when the two of you are together or perhaps in a small group of friends. As she comes to know and trust you more, she will be less shy. ]
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Try everytime you first see her to gently take her hand and kiss it. Like a prince does a princess. . This will get her to slowly open up to the idea of you holding her hand for longer periods of time. You could always kiss her forehead after you kiss her hand. That will get her used to being touched. You have to be careful not to push as there may be something in her background that is causing her resistance (a rape, child abuse/molestation, witness to sexual acts by others, etc...) Try having a talk with her and explaining to her that you want to show her affection but don't want to scare her or make her feel like you are pushing her. Explain to her what being a boyfriend is in your opinion and what being a girlfriend is in your opinion. Tell her you want to take things slowly with her but affection is something that you need. Holding hands is a very small requirement of a relationship.
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